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Cat Moore's avatar

I felt this. Even though I have children, you touched on the internal dialogue and system. I started my engine but the decision to keep it running or disabling it came from the very place you’re describing. Shutting it off came from a place of self preservation, and I have zero regrets. Loving your insight and perspective. 🤍

Sincerely, Ellyette's avatar

Thanks sweet girl. I am lucky to know you as a friend and momma, and you are one of the best!!!! Thanks for showing us how it’s done. :)

Alanna King's avatar

Another uniquely beautiful insight from you ❤️

Sincerely, Ellyette's avatar

Thank you!! That’s so kind, every read, like and comment makes me a little braver;)

Billie's avatar

I think this is the most accurate description of the shame I've carried over my lack of resolve around the decision of whether to have a family. I witness so many others who have a seeming clarity and I've always felt left out of a secret or must be broken. I'm so glad you wrote this for the world to read, thank you <3

Sincerely, Ellyette's avatar

Wow. Thank you for speaking up! I am glad I am not alone. Always writing to hope it lands it in the right inbox. Thank you for the support!!